A group of men who enjoy getting better at approaching women and being social in Chicago. We're here to support with accountability and connection for a better overall pickup experience.
Rules:
No advice giving, you will get two warnings the third time you are out.
Advice giving is toxic, telling people what they should do or how they should behave is bristling. Nobody wants to hear your “hard truths” or be forced to “face the facts.” Rather if someone asks for advice or feedback it is much more helpful to say “This is what I did in a similar situation, and here is what happened to me.”
New people must be voted in unanimously.
This is a private, non-commercial group for people in Chicago only. We do not advertise or promote the existence of this group we only invite people who we have met in person and who seem like-minded. See rule six.
No commercial advertising, no spam
Don’t post about anything you are selling. Obviously things cost money, if you’re going to a festival with some other guy and it costs $10.00 to get in that might be helpful to know. If you are going to a pickup related talk or seminar and it costs money to get in don’t post about that in here. When in doubt talk to the admins. If you solicit people in DMs and the admins are made aware this is grounds for removal as well.
No lying
The kind of connection we promote is about honesty and authenticity. We are not here to trick or manipulate women into sleeping with us. If you’re looking for that there are other places to get support. All game is inner game, and part of being a whole person is to be able to be honest about our lives.
Do not promote the group
Do not talk about the existence of this group with others. If you know someone you would like to join us, bring them out for an event and if we think they will be a good fit we may extend an invite. There are no actuall processes for joining this group, it’s very casual.